Do some girls actually enjoy that intense sexual bondage? I don't mean normal bondage, I mean the type that involves pain, bleeding, candles, burns.. Throwing the girl around, bruising her.. etc. I've seen it around a lot lately on the internet. And i'm disgusted by it, personally. But i'm curious whether anyone actually enjoys it? |
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Why aren't sexual fantasies involving bondage as exciting when inacted in real life? I just started dating someone new & I confessed that I had this fantasy. He said that he was interested in it too & tried several times to create this fantasy for me. Although, when ever he has done this, I end up feeling uncomfortable, too exposed & get turned off. Then, he gets turned off by my lack of enjoyment so, it ends up not working out. Has anyone else had this experience? If so, why is it & what should I do about it to make it more enjoyable? |
There is a huge difference between reality and fantasies. Fantasies we dream up to be perfectly ideal and we don't include the actual feelings that we feel in reality. In your head being tied and helpless seems to be wonderful and at any given time we can suppress the thought and come back to reality. In reality once you are tied and helpless and you are feeling everything your mindset changes, there is no turning back and there is no suppressing it because it is reality.
If you want to explore bondage and don't have much experience with it, I suggest starting out simple. Scarves and maybe some rope are ideal. Don't go over board, start by having your wrists tied and if you feel comfortable advance slowly from there. |
What is the spiritual bondage of having sexual relationship with someone not being married to that person or p? If this is soul ties what needs to be done to release theses ties so you can be cleansed |
It depends.
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Moral connotations regarding bondage as a sexual practice? Is it wrong, is it right? how ought it be conducted? any interesting viewpoints? |
First question: Do all parties involved enjoy it? then yes, it is very right. Does someone involved (especially the on being bound) not enjoy it? then it is wrong.
"how ought it be conducted?" first off I do not like the police style handcuffs, matter of choice they do have upsides, just not comfortable for the bottom. Leather cuffs, tight but not so tight to cut off circulation. rope, do some research, find knots that do not tighten when pulled on. hard square knots and cats paws work well.
*health disclaimer* do not tie anyone up with poor circulation. perform a capillary refill test on occasion, 5 minutes or so. squeeze fingernail until it turns white and let go if it takes more than 2 seconds for it to go back to normal color, the bounds are too tight.
start with basic stuff first, be too careful to start with. check out the download section in my source, good stuff |
Is non sexual bondage na normal thought? im a 16 year old guy. i some times have sexual fantasies of being tied to my bed and being blind folded. but not just there. ive grown up taking care of myself. sometimes i wish i was tied up strictly for that feeling of helplessness and needing some one to help me. my friend got back from sleep away camp. when she asked why i dont like sleep away camp i told her because the people that i know there are big on jokes and i know id wake up tied to a tree and i wouldnt know weather or not to strugle and freek or enjoy it. is this normal? |
This is kiiinda related, but babies tend to like being wrapped up in a blanket because it feels safe and secure, like nothing can get to it.
As they grow up, like as guys and teenagers, they start not liking that feeling because the imaginary "blanket" their parents put around them feel too restricting, and they want freedom.
I'm definitely not qualified or anything to make this observation, but since you grew up taking care of yourself, maybe you didn't have that feeling of wanting to escape the blanket, and you still like feeling safe and secure? |
Is it normal to fantasize about non sexual bondage? im a 16 year old guy. ive grown up taking care of myself. sometimes i wish i was tied up strictly for that feeling of helplessness and needing some one to help me. my friend got back from sleep away camp. when she asked why i dont like sleep away camp i told her because the people that i know there are big on jokes and i know id wake up tied to a tree and i wouldnt know weather or not to strugle and freek or enjoy it. i kinda wished i weould get guynaped or something and be tied up. like if some one tied me up as a joke like the camp thing i would be a bit bipolar. id yell then id probobly get all flustered and posibly horny. is this normal? |
| I'm not a psychologist, but from what it seems like, since you've had to rely on yourself for a majority of your life, it's the ultimate relief for you when you have to rely on someone else for once. Letting go of your independence for a little while is probably so exciting for you that it turns you on, like you said above. While people who may not understand you think you're weird for feeling this way, it kind of makes sense based on how your life's been so far. Hope this helps! |
Bondage Advice (Sexual Content)? Now, I've been dating this girl for a long time. We love each other, and we fool around like a normal couple does. Now, frankly, lately we've been getting a little bored with just missionary. Though I've no bedposts, and she wont let me toy with her unless we're on the bed. So I was wondering if anyone out there has any rope bondage diagrams or instructions that'd cause her to be spread.
Oh, and I'm sorry if this is not appropriate. |
There are a lot here.
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In sexual terms what is bondage? me and my friend is just wondering cann uu help please ?? xxx :) xxx |
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Hitting, bondage, sex, sexual, beating, sexy, ..... WHAT DO YOU THINK? My boyfriend beats me quite a bit, but I don't really mind......I know thats bad to say, but the pain is, personally, a turn on for me.
I love the submissive part about being a woman, I am physically weaker than nearly any man, and that feeling if awesome to me.
To have someone hit me or hold me down and have sex with me is very empowering in a way, I feel so wanted and the guy (my bf) feels so fulfilled and in complete power that is seems like we both like it...
Do any guys out there get off in a way by being in power over their girlfriends? ? do you enjoy being in power over a woman as much as I enjoy a guy doing it? is "full-force" hitting out of the question to you?
I know it is an odd question, but it is just a question, Please dont be mean with your answers...
Thanks
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| I am deeply into BD SM. My gf is my submissive. You are your bf's submissive. For me, BD SM is the hugest turn on there is. My gf and I have incredibly erotic and hot sessions where sometimes there is blood and a lot to clean up afterward. We love and it is the best sex in the world. Sometimes it is easy to get carried away and pay for it later by being too sore to go to work, or ending up with visible bruises that weren't planned. As long as you stay within safe limits you are enjoying an incredible sexual experience. But like with anything, there are dangers so be careful he doesn't overdo it on you. You don't want permanent injuries or embarrassing bruises in places that you can't cover up with clothes. But it worries me for you when you mention full force hitting. Please don't allow him to really hurt you. Keep it to an erotic sexual game. |
Marilyn Manson -is he bi sexual or into bondage? i like his music but were is he coming from i am puzzled about this guy |
To some he's a freak, to some he's a genius, but to most, they know him as straight.
Don't let the makeup and eyeliner fool you!!
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