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My husband watches live cam websites? accidently i saw some porn sites actually alot of them but i knew he does that anyway. also i found live webcams websites and he has checked alot of profiles of girls on them. some of them are free and some are not, i dont know if he has an account on any of them but i think he is cheating on me. whats the difference if he is with a girl online watching her getting naked and doing stuff for him or a real girls. they are the same to me. i dont know what to do , should i confront him and talk to him | | Confront him and tell him how u feel..Maybe also ask yourself, would u rather have him looking at cam shows on his computer or be at the strip club getting lap dances? | My boyfriend watches live cam websites? accidently i saw some porn sites actually alot of them but i knew he does that anyway. also i found live webcams websites and he has checked alot of profiles of girls on them. some of them are free and some are not, i dont know if he has an account on any of them but i think he is cheating on me. whats the difference if he is with a girl online watching her getting naked and doing stuff for him or a real girls. they are the same to me. i dont know what to do , should i confront him and talk to him. | | usually, though not always a fellow (I am a guy) watches what is unfulfilled in his life. Selfish it is, but what is watched is what a fellow hopes to experience. Perhaps some technique or action that you refuse to do. If these are not the reason, then he is a voyeur and harmless. | How do I know that looking at porn is where it stops with my man? There is more than just porn pictures that pop up on the porn sites and 95% of it is free. Things like webcams and local girls in your area. I wouldn't be so suspicous if there wasn't so much out there that has free access. My man has a yahoo email account plus another one through aol. Why two emails and why do I only have one address? The other thing is that I know he is masturbating at night and it is only on the nights that he spends looking at porn until all hours of the night. I was married to a man who looked at porn and it led him to numerous affairs. I don't want to live this way but with the thoughts that everyone is doing it, I often question what I should do. I love him but I CAN'T MAKE him stop looking at it. We have no sex life right now and he says it is because we argue and what not, but are they just excuses? I mean it's not like we fight every day so how does it effect the sex life that much or is it the porn that is effecting our sex life? I want to be #1 in his life. | You can't be sure. I am living proof of that.
My ex-hb says that he only looked at porn, but the whole thing with porn is that it de-sensitizes men so that it doesn't seem so bad, and then they need more and more to get the same rush, very much the same as a drug addict.
Porn is a scary thing. Did you know that Ted Bundy (notorious serial killer in the late 70's and early 80's) started out 'just looking at porn'? then he needed a bigger fix, which led to guynapping, rape, and murder.
My ex wasn't that bad, but I feel that he could have been. He had a double life that included masturbation, porn, lying, cheating, he even liked to get it on with young girls, even tried it with my sis when we were married. Now that I look back on the events of our 15 year marriage, it is scary all the things that happened as a direct result of porn.
You say you aren't #1 in his life, and you are right. you never will be, as long as the porn is there. My ex even tried turning me into a porn star. In EVERY way imaginable.
Porn is like taking a drug that numbs every erotic and emotional feeling guys have towards their girlfriends. It's not about you...it's about the porn.
My advice to you is to not waste 15 years of your life like I did hoping that he will change and that you will suddenly be desirable to him again.
If he has chosen porn, then you tell him that you hope he and his little pin up hussies are happy together, that you have more respect and diginity than to stick around and try to compete with that nonsense.
And if he tells you he has stopped looking at it just to get you back, you tell him that a drug addict doesn't give up meth and the only way he will get it out of his system is to go see a therapist and get to the heart of why he feels he needs to look at tha trash in the first place. | Divorced boyfriend's greed and selfishness has ended our relationship? He confessed to me that he had been watching Asian women touch themselves live via webcams since we've been talking ( a whole month ). I know men have needs, so him watching porn doesn't really get to me, but him watching live web cam shows does because it's different. He had claimed that there was no interaction with the girl but the damage has been dealt.
I call him greedy and selfish because when we were together, he and I were very open about sex, I like sex very much and have no problem being naughty with him, we talk dirty with one another, about our fetishes, scenarios, and when he asks me to take nude pictures and videos for him I do, I wear and do what he tells me to, with a smile, he loves them, and tells me he watches them over and over again. But then he always asks me if I would be into a 3 some, with another girl, I tell him I'd have to think about it, but am in no way comfortable about it, so, when I found out that he's been watching women live over webcams since we've been speaking, it was too much for me to tolerate, and so I ended our relationship.
He is quite older then me, he's been divorced and has 2 adult sons, I am 19, and sure, I know I should be dating younger people, but I'm just more attracted to older people, for their personalities and level of maturity. We've been talking over the computer for a bit, and have been planning a meet-up in actual life. But not anymore.
After making sure it was live, I called it quits with him. I mean, I liked him, but not so much that I would let him walk over me and disrespect me in these sorts of matters. Just knowing the fact that no matter what I do for him, he's always going to want an Asian woman on the side hurts me, makes me feel like nothing but a piece of Porn to him.
I have done everything I can do sexually to satisfy him until we meet, but it wasn't enough, apparently one girl isn't enough for him, he needs his Asian cam girls AND me, and I'm sorry, I will not stand for that. He was the only man in my life, I have respected and stayed loyal to him in all aspects, and this is how he repays me...
Our conversations were poor, he always drives them downhill by bringing up how horny he is and how much he wants me there to stroke him off, whenever I try to talk about something normal, like the news, or how our days were, he ignores me, and gives me slow uninterested replies such as "that's cool." Even though I was talking about my dead Grandmother, and there's so many details like this, that I wont get into it.
After calling it an end, he begged me to come back to him, most likely because if I don't, he will lose the free porn I used to make for him.
He claimed he loved me but I'm not so sure he did with his heart as much as he did with his Penis. | Don't mind Asian women... people like them because of availability... supply and demand
beside they are generally thin
its not about his age, its about his gender... besides if he were nice to you then you would walk all over him (that is a fact about women) | How to deal with the 'pressure' of online chat in a long distance relationship if you don't feel like talking? This is a question my nephew, who is in college now, emailed me the other day. He has been in love with a girl for over a year. Soon after they met, she had to move to France to begin her studies. He wrote:
"Today we live in a world where instant communication is the norm and is free: Instant messaging, Skype, webcams, etc. This past year, chatting and using the webcam have been daily rituals. On one hand, this makes me feel closer to her. But on the other hand, I’m almost always at a computer, whether it be my own or my computer at university. This means that for me instant messaging is always a possibility. And whereas this may seem like a good thing, I often feel I am supposed to be chatting whenever she is online, especially since our time zones don't leave that many available hours open. Of course it doesn't help if I am delaying university work, so whenever I don't feel like chatting, I felt I couldn’t use the excuse of having to work because I simply wasn’t working."
Please give your serious opinions on how to deal with this delicate situation.
Many thanks! | | He would need to set his priorities right. He should understand that he needs to get his college work done before he spends time on the computer chatting with her. | Solemnly 16 on New Years Eve... What should I do? I'm 16 and half.. I'm a girl.. and I don't know what to do.
My 21 year old brother went out with his friends.
And my parents are upstairs watching some lame movie that I really don't wanna see.
What should I do?
I feel depressed enough already that I don't have any friends (that live nearby enough to hang out with weekly). All my best and closest friends live far away (because they're all from sleep away summer camp or they moved away).
I don't really feel like watching a movie because I feel like that would just make me feel more alone.
I've tried to get my camp friends to video-chat with me through AIM or ooVoo or Skype but they're all at parties already - or the ones that are free, don't have webcams/have to spend time with their families.
I just want to do something fun that's effortless but I don't know what to do... I just feel like almost whatever I can think of -- if I did it (like painting my nails, reading, watching a movie, building something/making a craft project) would just make me feel worse because I'm still doing it alone.
What should I do to shed this overwhelming feeling of solemnity? | I'm doing the same thing =/ My boyfriend had to leave last minute for a family thing and I'm alone.
I live in Germany, so it's 5 am now. I obviously stayed up all night, and don't recommend it. Being alone sucks on holidays!
Take a bubble bath or something relaxing. I would have if i had a bathtub haha
And maybe just take some time to reflect on your year and what you want to do with 2011. Write it in a journal or blog it to remember :)
Bake something. Turn on your ipod, dance around in booty shorts and eat the cake batter :D
If worst comes to worst, Sleep.
Good luck, I hope you have a better night than me! |
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